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Saturday, November 26, 2016

Mature Fashion: New Website!!

Hello all Stylinistas (and Fashionistas)

RockMyStyling is moving to a sub-heading on the RockMyAges.Info website;  I am SO happy to have only one site.  Now it will be possible to catagorize the subject matter and deal with the pertinent blog all in one place.

As always, I welcome any and all feedback.  I can see from the number of hits that I am getting quite a few readers, but I really would like to have you share your styling secrets as well.

I am still setting it up, but you can find all the information about styling on the new site as I add it.  Until then, you can, of course, view any older posts on this website; it will not be going away.

Have a happy holiday season and please visit the new website...........Geneva


Wednesday, November 9, 2016

Mature Fashion: More on Curating

As I mentioned in the last post, I curate my closet continually . (However, I ALWAYS do the seasonal thing as explained in earlier posts).  Of course, frequent editing cuts down on the time it takes when I do that seasonal thing, etc.

I put this outfit on the other day when running errands and having lunch with a friend; I am not happy with the fit (losing some weight usually has some consequences for my wardrobe).  As you can see, it is now a bit too baggy and the hem is now also sagging.  Although it is a bit wrinkled from a long bout of sitting, it is apparent that the skirt does not fit properly now.  I obviously did not check my mirror effectively that morning, but the picture says it all.

If this skirt was to be a 'keeper' in my closet, I would invest either the time or money to alter it properly.  I will not do so because the skirt is representative of a 'trend' that will probably be out of fashion soon and the quality of the material does not make the investment worthwhile.  I like the skirt but it is not one that I love so much that I will miss it.

When I undressed for the day, the skirt immediately went into my pile of designated thrift store items. (I already have started a bag of clothes to be laundered and sent on to the thrift store.)  I avoid putting the item back in my closet if I have decided to get rid of it.

Weight gain or loss is one of the major reasons that women of all ages lose sight of styling maintenance.  Although I believe that both the mirror and the camera can be a gal's best friend, (it is never diplomatic, etc.) ..this picture also reminds me that I really must attend to getting more light into my bedroom; I have had this problem before.  In fact, that same day I put on chocolate brown stockings and left the bedroom before I realized they were not black!!

Saturday, October 29, 2016

Mature Fashion: Continuous Refining of Closets (Curating)

A nude face palette was not suitble for  this outfit-I did realize it before I left the house;
Although I do a formal curating of my closet twice a year, I am actually working on it a little bit all year long. Two of the qualities I am always scrutinizing are the place the garment hold in my "roles" (exactly how MANY functions do I attend in a year and do I have dresses do I need?)  I find that I usually have too many.  My own personal needs require appropriate seasonal dress for the occasional wedding or other formal or semi-formal occasion.  I do NOT need each of the ones in my closet each season. Contrary to the advice of many stylists, I examine the garment for its suitability for storage and use at a later date.   If I absolutely love each of the excess dresses, they fit properly, and are suitable in every way, etc., I store it properly (NOT in my closet) and "buy" the "new" dress, etc. in a later season.(All too often I have purged my closet of a garment I loved and really wish that I had it a season or two later.) I keep a completely closed storage bin in an outside shed in which I store clean garments that I may want to keep for later, stored with appropriate bug resistors, etc., and rotate some of my 

Having said that, I like to have enough garments  to easily adapt my wardrobe as the styles and trends change. For example, I like to have a flattering A-line and a flattering pencil type skirt in my core colors, as well as two lengths of pants, etc.  As always, classic cuts and clean lines are the most practical in all areas.Overall, I have my own personal challenge of keeping just the right amount of garments for all the catagories I have.  I have been cutting back on the number of core  garments,  (who,-with my lifestyle,- needs five white cotton shirts? six black wool skirts? four charcoal..three navy, etc., etc.)  I am trying to cut back the number off the items but increase quality and versatility.

The area I am concentrating on now is eliminating (or reducing) colors from the closet that do not work as well for me with my "silver" hair.  As I have aged, I also am more "picky" about having shoes in the closet that are comfortable but also stylish rather than a closet of shoes that I can only wear for an hour or two before having to change.  This is one of my most difficult challenges, but I am working on it.

Thursday, October 20, 2016

Mature Fashion: NoFearOfFashion

I am making a new cyber friend on-line with our discussion of fashion and exchanges of styling information.  I have just published a post to  "" regarding "".  That site is owned and published by Greetje Kamminga, a fashion conscious Dutch lady who I believe also rocks her age. I am adding a post to this blogsite because I am dealing with the styling principles involved.

The comments she has made on my blogs already let me know she understands the principles of design fully and the know how to best apply them; As you may know, I use this blog as a reference manual and general styling guide; in other words, a "how to" publication.  I will demonstrate how she has applied that advice in both the use of those principles on her own body type and mine.  Her own sense of style and generosity  have led her to share welcome suggestions that  have contributed to my own personal styling improvement.

case in point:

In my post "the Stylish You"  published July 9th on this blog, I showed the outfit to the left and the raspberry Kors handbag I chose for the day. Although Greetje was very complimentary to my choice of monochromatic dressing, etc and exhibited her styling knowledge (see comments on that post), she kindly suggested that the use of either the yellow or the green might have been a better choice.  When I viewed the photos (remember, pictures are worth a thousand words!) I instantly noted that she was perfectly correct. Either handbag would have provided better balance and proportion to the ensemble.  (I will be wearing this outfit again in the spring, and fully intend to accessorize with the Brighton mustard handbag. )

Needless to say, I am delighted that I have found an accomplished stylist who was willing to share her knowledge and know-how to my personal styling.  This sharing of knowledge is also the main reason I began this blog and to share my knowledge of styling with persons who want to learn how to make the most of their own closets, body types, and love of fashion.

Another case in point is several pictures I pinned to my board NoFearFashion that demonstrates her sophisticated use of color and line to create enormously flattering and fashionable ensembles; a talent that I believe to be a really strong point with her. It is obvious that she really loves color and knows how to use it effectively.

On my board I recommend your viewing of Red Velvet Jacket, Vintage Leather Shorts, Multi-Color Ralph Lauren Shirt, Red Leather Jacket Scarf and Jeans, the Diane Von Furstenberg Wrap Dress, and Golden Boots for superb examples of these design and styling techniques.  I am sure she has more pictures to offer, but those are ones I chose for my own personal inspiration.

I believe that Greetje is several inches taller than I am and has longer legs although I believe she and I share some similarities in body type (It is hard to tell, because her styling techniques are used to present her body in the best possible is our goal)  Anyway, her height allows her to use large areas of color (color blocking) in ways that would overwhelm my smaller frame.  I posted the above references to my Pinterest board as inspiration for some of my own uses of color in the more subtle ways that would flatter my own body type.  I also have to pay more attention than she does to leg length.  (Once again, this is just a supposition). 

I love monochromatic dressing which overall is one of my most flattering looks. because of my lack of height, leg length, and larger middle.  However, too much of one color, like classic lines, if not used wisely are simply boring, even though it may make a woman look taller, thinner, etc.  I have noted that many of my "uniform" pictures when worn just around the house (the look I all too frequently photograph) is sometimes just too much.  Greetje's influence on me has already begun to take effect. I am trying to break up the monotony without losing the line of color; something she does very well.

I heartily recommend to all my readers, but especially those who are somewhat tall, somewhat rectangular or inverted triangles; an excellent source for inspiration. 

Sunday, October 16, 2016

Mature Fashion : Keeping Current

Keeping currant does NOT mean just wearing the latest fad or going out and buying whatever the latest garments delivered to your local department store. It means choosing elements of fashion and applying them strategically to suit your body, lifestyle,  and personality.

Dressing "appropriately" for one's lifestyle can be a bit of a challenge for the oldest members of the +40 crowd; in fact so much more a concern that I am thinking about moving the age criteria on the blog (not that it really matters, fashion styling basics are pretty much the same no matter what a woman's age-it just how often the styling challenge occurs that makes the difference).

I have noticed that so many people in my age group are people who are retired and feel no pressure to keep up with the dress codes of a work place or the business world in general and have

limited social contact with society at large.  In fact, all too many of them fall into the trap of comfortable (baggy) sweats, thongs or slippers for wearing everywhere and all the time, little or no attention paid to cosmetic or hair styling.  Without fail all to many of them also have little conversation unless it is about their ills or family problems.

Of course, not all people who are over sixty fall into this rut, but I must say at least 50% of the ones I observe daily, do.  I have to believe this is a more general condition because I almost always get some compliment when I do general errands such as shopping the grocery or craft stores.  

All of this would just feed the vanity  train EXCEPT it is a known medical and psychological fact that people have better all around health when they pay attention to how they look; it is not vanity, just good sense for maintaining health. In addition, since 90 to 95 % (depends on the source) of all communication is non-verbal;...what you see, is what you get.

Red heels are Isaac Mizrahi; wool felt hat, Dooney Bourke navy handbag.

Sunday, September 25, 2016

Mature Fashion: Semi Annual Closet Cleanup

Fashion Week for S/S 2017 has just concluded in New York and moved on to London and Milan. I am a little behind because I was unable to watch the runway shows at  (I do not know why they were not available  to me until the shows were over-whether it was a temporary browser problem, or something to do with the website; I have never had this problem before, but all is working well now.).  I sincerely suggest that all stylinistas view several of the runway shows to get a feel for looks they may want to incorporate into the spring/summer wardrobe. (you can wait until Feb/March and view the fashion journals, etc., but I like to get a head start).

I like to view the runway shows before I complete the closet clean up.  In the meanwhile, I am able to remove any item that should be discarded due to wear and tear, poor fit, etc. I will then determine which garments I will keep.  I always keep anything I absolutely love and look for inspiration as to how I can incorporate that garment into the looks I have chosen to wear for the season.  I like to use it in a fresh new way, thereby giving the wardrobe a fresh new look and not allow the same clothing to become "dated". Performing this two-step curating process also benefits my budget.

I also use this time to examine the garments in my wardrobe to analyze or refine my own personal style. For example, I have always loved good blazer type jackets.  As I have mentioned before  in my blog "", my roles have changed significantly over the past few years.  My closet chock full of lovely classic blazers in wool, silk, etc. are slowly being replaced with blazers that are more appropriate for my current and future roles.  I find that I have been adding utilitarian cardigan sweaters rather than wearing the blazers I love.  I doubt I would be making this change unless I went through my usual closet curating process and writing it down in this post. (this is an example of the clothing rut that it is so easy to fall into)

Grey lizard purse is by Michael Kors, silver flats from Sam Edelmann's Circus collections, Grey, wine, and pink BCBG  desert hat.  Grey heels are LifeStride, one of the most comfortable brand of heels that I know. I included the picture of the heels because I did a shoe change when I had a certain errand to run and wanted a little more formal look.
My "signature" hat for the day was this colorful felt that lightened the mood of all that grey, (and of course, covered the hair that I had neither the time or opportunity to arrange in a more flattering style).

Hats have become somewhat of a signature for me because I have both delicate and hard to manage hair, partly because of the harsh coloring process, age, heredity, etc.  My life style does not allow me to spend a significant amount of time on hair styling, and I have a limited budget to pay styling professionals to take care of it properly. Hats and gentle at home hair care environment address those concerns.  Hats fit in admirably with my life style, keep sun damage to a minimum, etc; besides, I LIKE hats......

Thursday, September 8, 2016

Mature Fashion: Closet Shopping & Styling

Most of my favorite styling ensembles for this season are just the remix of garments that already exist in my closet.  As always, when I plan to update my styling "looks", I shop my closet first to select garments that I can mix and max to create a certain look. (after I have curated and rid the closet of any item that no longer fits properly, is damaged beyond repair, or has outlived its fashion cycle!! ) Only AFTER shopping my closet will I determine what minor seasonal purchases I may choose to purchase. (very few, and always at the appropriate price point).  My major goal is to make sure I create desirable ensembles that give a fresh new look to my wardrobe and "rock my age".

Of course, shopping my closet has the added and very practical advantage that I have neither shopping time nor expense involved when I simply remix. 

An additional advantage to shopping my closet rather than a shop is I already know the garments in my closet fit me properly, are in colors that I have already chosen to suit my coloring, and in a style that is suitable to my my body type.

Inspiration and imagination is all that is necessary to create desirable ensembles that give a fresh new look to my wardrobe and "rock my age."  Remix means just exactly that; re-arranging garments and especially, accessories, to update the same old items yet give them a new fashion look.

The only thing I have to update is styling techniques in both the use of jewelry, hair fashions, and cosmetic enhancements.